Rule No.3: Ghost or be Ghosted - There is No in Between
PSA: Ghosting sucks, but it's not going away anytime soon. When it comes to ghosting, nobody is entirely blameless. That guy from the bar ghosted you. You ghosted someone from hinge. I ghosted this blog for a month (I went on vacation, let me live). But, for the sake of the fans, I spent my sabbatical building a case file on all things ghosting. In the court of dating, there are misdemeanors - late replies, bad vibes - and then there are felonies. Ghosting after real emotional or physical connection? That’s life without parole. And yes, men seem to specialize in it. I've been a victim of this crime more times than I'd care to admit, but my repeated exposure has allowed me to recognize a pattern. Every time I'm out with a guy and I think to myself, "Wow, he actually seems normal," he vanishes like he's in the witness protection program. I'm talking crazy chemistry, great conversation, same vibes, and then...poof. Just a month ago, I matched with this ...